Archive - Musings, Reflections, and Life Lessons

How Long (Actually) Does It Take To Be World Class?

I had my VA do over 10 hours of research to get a data-backed answer.

Mar 10

February 2024

This might go down as one of the strangest and coolest experiments I've ever run.

Feb 11

October 2023

I’ve quit modern romance

Let me explain...

Oct 22, 2023

Microaggression

What makes it irksome? It is a race thing? Or is there something deeper? How have we been perpetrators of microaggressions? And as always, what can we…

Oct 1, 2023

August 2023

We dive into our experiences with sexual assault, sexual communication, and the environmental various that create sticky situations like that.

Aug 20, 2023

I slapped a girl and she liked it

3 insights from exploring BDSM this past year.

Aug 6, 2023

July 2023

3 reflections after 1 year, $8500, trying to connect total strangers together based on books

“Wouldn’t it be cool if I could instantly meet 10 other people who wanted to nerd out about this book?”

Jul 30, 2023

March 2023

Living Life with Open Hands

...and following the natural flows of life.

Mar 25, 2023

September 2022

4 Biggest Lessons after Reinventing Myself 5 times in 13 years

Lesson 1 - Don't build your identity out of the *noun* of what you do. Lesson 2 - Don't go cold turkey, do a slow reinvention. Read more for Lesson 3…

Sep 11, 2022

February 2022

6 Observations After Going Through 170 Applications on Upwork

I hired a productivity assistant via Upwork and found some interesting numbers.

Feb 27, 2022

[Breakdown] How to Get 90 minutes of Perfect Productivity for $5

Step by step, scripts, and screenshots.

Feb 20, 2022

What it was like to be employee #1 at a YC B2B startup

After leaving my first W-2 job to go back into founder mode, figure it might be interesting to share about life as employee #1

Feb 5, 2022

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